10 Types of 30-Year-Old Single Guys

Good article

Where is the one for chicks

What happened to this poor comment section?

I’m #10, I’m an incel and nobody will give me the time of day so what else am I gonna do other than give up.

Gotta say I definetly can relate to number 10 and I think theres a lot more number 10s out there then people think. Especially when social skills and dating skills aren’t something that can be teached. I mean they sorta can but not really. Theres no guides or manuals. Theres tips but you pretty much figure out it all by yourself with absolutely no help in any way shape or form. You learn one way or another. Once you figure out the game or think you have a mental grasp on it then you realize how truly difficult and complicated it is and how many factors in it you cannot control. Also one person beliefs and experiences etc in dating may not hold true at all for the next person or they may be the opposite. At this point what do I need a gf for besides the sex? I don’t want kids and im 99 percent sure Im never falling in love or getting married so I guess that works for me. Also I see nothing wrong with prostitution as long as completely done out of free will. Theres a stigma that if you pay for sex your a loser but honestly I don’t see it that way. Yeah sure anyone can go out and get a gf or hook up but the difficulty and chances of success for 1 man may be vastly different then as opposed to the next man but the main thing is you aren’t 100 percent guaranteed to get laid. Now if you pay for it that’s about a 99.9 percent guarantee excluding extenuating circumstances and besides your gonna pay for it either way so yeah.

Marriage isn’t worth it at all for men these days since a lot of these low life slutty women usually always win out in court as it is most of the time, especially if they have children. So the court system always fails us men, even though these very pathetic women sleep around so much. Been there.

There’s two types of whaaamen.
Those who have seen the wall. And those that will.
The wall takes no prisoners.

Getting closer to 30, I fall into the ethnicity barrier, I’m the only white person my age in this town, lived here for 7 years and it’s time to move to the farm now!
Not that these Indian women aren’t *F u c k I n g gorgeous* but you know that family tradition, we’re all euro decent. traditions are important to me, even when they make things more challenging

fuck bitches
get money

I am 7 but more recently 10. I said fuck it one day and havent looked back. Thing is you have you live life for yourself. There are more important things in life than chasing the carnal. You will not find me on xbox under pile pizza boxes. Get out and move , travel, and live.

Wow thats some sexist ass shit right there… Where the 10 types of girl who are single at 30 article?

I am some foul combination of 7 and 10 and present as a 6 rate me good ladies

lol you forgot the type who spends his time making misogynistic comments generalizing all women and upvoting himself with alts. man needs to chill

Sucks to be single, Doesn’t It?

Update: Do not fit in any particular one as does not cover the fact as had heart transplant(heart defect at birth did not know). Which did not mention when first posted I said was close to 7 and or 10. As medical issue did not know most my life and almost died turning purple from my heart was dying. Did not give up fully on myself just dating based on this. Started over at 32 basically and now 34. I am in year 2 of my first new plans and goals. Do not think all women are evil and was wrong for me to say that. As when we get hurt in relationship we have to deal with alone and hard to not unleash it at times without hurting anyone else. So, we tend to take it all in and many will blame themselves. Though, its not what is right as need to release it and move on! Stop blaming and move on through accepting that you want to be saved. Starting to listen once again which spent many years not. As in the end our future is dependent not on our decisions but many as what kind of world we want to live in. If you do not care then nobody will care about you.

Situation is this that I started over with new heart which do not know who’s heart received. So very grateful to getting a 2nd chance and can not explain to how difference it is to getting working heart compared to living most my life with bad heart. I moved back with my parents and getting my life in more order. Not dating because at 34 and living with my parents. Moving on making progress slowly it seems but its moving. Looking forward to my new chapter in life! Sad to see so many single people and so many generations hurt that be the x,y, xy, and start of millennial’s. Seems all strange that could not find common ground. It’s all up to you to find happiness. MADE MY ERRORS IN TRUST AND NEED TO BUILD MYSELF UP PHYSICALLY. ALSO, DO NOT CHASE WOMEN AS ONLY LEAD TO A DISASTER.

So i was reading this article, a light bit, making good-natured fun of this generation. Ha, i can think of a few more types of single men and also the female version. By the way, also the 30-year-olds who ARE in a relationship but actually don’t like it at all, are to be pitied. In fact, it’s true for so many of us, in our quarter-life crises, unable to seize control of our lives and unable to turn it in the right direction. Blessed are those who seem to have it all figured out, their turn to doubt and look back will come, later.

Anyway. Then i read the comments and was taken aback with the amount of vitriol and hate against women.. Wow! Are there really so many lonely, bitter young men out there? That’s very sad. Everyone who wants to give and receive love should be able to find it. But my sympathy for these men in the comments ends where:

1. You generalize all women, “all women these days” etc. Come on, don’t be an idiot. Women come in just as many flavours as men do. There are selfish and superficial women out there, surely, just as there are kind and fun women. If your prejudice is that all women are evil then you blind yourself with hate and gloss over the good ones.
2. You put the blame for what’s wrong with your life, or with this world, always on someone else. Take some responsibility. Blaming someone else makes you a whiny, immature person and frankly not an attractive partner. You were hurt in any situation? See what you can learn from that, try to see where you made a mistake. It’s way too easy to always point the finger without introspection.
3. You have unrealistic demands of the kind of person who is “good enough” for you. Really you want a hot body, a fun personality, a goddess in bed, financially independent, a solid career but with enough spare time for you, a high IQ (but not so high as to overshadow you), has the same interests, no drama, loyal, generous and of course in awe of your unrecognised IQ and talents. This is not a real person you’re seeking, it’s an idealization. Get one of them waifu pillows and have fun with your fantasy. Real people have flaws, just like you have flaws. See which flaws and which mistakes you can forgive and if the other is willing to love you with your flaws.
4. You have enormous demands on what your partner should do for you but you are unwilling to make an effort yourself. Initiative and interest in each other’s well-being should come from both sides. Which should be easy if there is sincere enthousiasm from both sides. Don’t expect something back immediately when you give something. Like sexual favours. But also gifts, or help or organising a date. Don’t feel like you’re entitled to the other person’s time/body/money. Give, trust, and be thankful to receive the same. If it remains unequal after a while, then it is time to discuss it.

All this goes for both partners. In a heterosexual or any other type of romantic relationship.
I find that usually you get out of it what you put into it. Both in a positive and negative way.

I am a 38-year old female. I was single for a long time because with a severe depression I knew I didn’t have much to offer. I was okay with that, even after I worked through my depression and was prepared to be a happy single forever. Last year I met someone, now I’m very glad to be together with someone I love. He’s not perfect, just like I’m not perfect, and we have an imperfect relationship. But if we weren’t both willing to work on it and ourselves we would both still be single. I wish you all love!

Hey Tim which type are you?? ?

Most likely, either the guy has many high standards (psychological issues and needs to reevaluate himself) or afraid to approach women (low self esteem/lacking in confidence) or is physically disabled (deaf/blind/speech issues/etc)

You forgot the mentally ill guy who finally thinks he’s been prescribed the right medications to function normally, but he now has zero dating experience and an entry-level job. A female friend of mine once went on a date with one of these 30+ types of single loser guys, not knowing beforehand.

Well Gee Wiz this is very easy to explain, with so much more women today that are very high maintenance, independent, selfish, and very spoiled, would be a very good reason why so many of us good men are still single today as i speak which it is certainly Not our fault at all.

I just married guy #10 and I wasn’t really the Girl Who Relentlessly Pursues. I just showed him love and he chose to make himself better because he felt loved either way 🙂
There is hope out there everyone!!

Crying because I don’t know which one I am

I fall in category number 10 and that’s mainly because too many women, especially western women these days are feminazis (curse them!) and I absolutely can’t stand them. What’s more, I’m 31-year-old virgin (yes, you heard me right) and it’s embarrassing that I’m still a virgin at this age. I originally intended to save my virginity for marriage, but in the age of feminism and misandry, that’s just impossible. Fortunately, I’m planning to visit the legal brothel in Nevada this year with the intention of losing my virginity. Although my decision to lose my virginity to a prostitute may seem immoral to you, the thought of dying a virgin was just too much for me to bear.

@Jack et al – as a female 6 (luckily I’m terrified of kids) I suddenly blossomed at 40 and now can’t leave the house without attracting men. Sometimes teenagers with cougar fantasies (fuck off); more often NGsWJHMTRGYAHRWPWSLAHWTPE. We don’t all reach age 25 and turn into wizened old crones, astonishingly!

10 all the way. :/

Well written. I thought you covered all the scenarios. 42 unmarried male here. Will your next installment cover that age bracket? Lol.

NGWJHMTRGYAHRWPWSLAHWTPE represent!
(ok, i’ve still got 5 years to go)
I’ve also had people claim (ask) that I was asexual (not sure what I am doing wrong there?)

What is up with the Single Chinese Guy part? That’s totally racist and unacceptable, and I’m not even a Chinese guy. It’s not cool to be ignorant.

10 types of 30 year old single girls. PLEASE -28yo single guy

I like your post. I think 30-year-old guys are the matured men so they are successful in life. The way they look at things are more matured than younger men. Most single women like men who are older than 30 years old.

you know them penguins, when they all choose a penguin then there’s that penguin on there own guy.

Here is the male response to this list. 10 types of single WOMEN over 30… http://www.lightlybraisedturnip.com/10-types-single-women-over-30/

This is a blog that claims to be creeped out by the far right because their racist loons, and yet this post contains more blatant racism than you’ll ever see at a GOP rally. Claiming that the Chinese kill their daughters sounds like the type of lies the Nazis spread about Jews during WWII. The reason why there are so many “missing” girls is in China is due to gender selective abortions and unreported births. We can assume that infanticide does occur in China, because, like murder, it occurs in all countries, but there are very few documented cases of it actually happening. In fact, you’d be hard pressed to find even one concrete example. As an expat living in China, I can also tell you that I’ve met many women from rural China and never heard even the slightest suggestion that infanticide is happening. I can also tell you that if you went up to the parents of a newborn girl in this country and asked them, “So, have you ever thought about drowning her?” that you’d better be able to handle both of them in a fight afterwards.

Actually, you forgot “Already Been Married Once and Has Kids and is Super Angry at His Ex-Wife” Guy. There’s about a billion of them in their 30s. Maybe a billion trillion.

Then there’s men like this one, who was once in his 30’s. I want more like this one please: 🙂 http://charlotterescuemission.org/purple-camaro/

Actually, is there a similar post for 30 year old single girls? If so, can someone point me to the link? Thanks!

I am being “The In-The-Closet Guy” for quite some time now, but that feels OK and don’t think it’s gonna change in the near future.

Ha ha, I’m totally New Lease on Life Guy (except I’m female.)

Consider an alternative viewpoint on the total package. Having a great career at 30 generally means you are either incredibly driven, incredibly lucky or working for rich parents. Most people change careers at least once and a lot of people coming out of college don’t know what profession they want.These days the 30 year old is competing with grad school graduates from not only the us but in many professions the best and brightest from around the world. Having a great career at 30 is basically incompatible with being anything other than a workaholic (in the usa at least).Consider also that 2 very driven people are going to have very little time and energy for the work it takes to raise a family.I’ve seen surveys of what successful men are looking for in a woman. A great or even good career doesnt even make the top 10 (anonymous surveys so they can be honest).A very driven career minded person that wants a family at 30 is mainly going to need help. Successful men often put off raising a family until their 40s after they’ve established themselves in a career and no longer need to be a workaholic to keep up. Nature has unfortunately made this a less compelling option for the very driven career minded woman (though there are fertility treatments that can stretch things a bit).In every relationship there’s give and take but most of the happily married in their 30s couples with offspring that I’ve seen tend to either specialize (he or she postpones career ambitions and focuses on the home and family while the other focuses on career) or, rarer but it still happens, they both put their career on the back burner.

The Chinese Single Guy: Brilliant.

This blog is really great. I like that the publisher relies on his experiences without trying to back it with studies or statistics. An author who doesn’t take oneself too seriously and mercilessly gives a dose of his dry sense of humor is something to relish. Something about the awesome shitty cartoons pulls at my heart strings. I wait for it every week and I know why.

As a soon-to-be-single-again 30 year old, this is the sort of stuff that haunts my nightmares.Also I expected some self-referential humor here… are you not single?

I’m not sure I’d want to hear about the 10 types of married men, in might push me over the edge into category 10.

Keep up the great blog posts. I can’t help but come back to your site every couple days on my lunch break, desperately hoping I’ll find a new article.

It’s mighty arrogant but I fit the total package stereotype the most. If someone could teach me how to be less picky and overthinking it’d be great..:\

I was NGWJHMTRGYAHRWPWSLAHWTPE but I finally did meet her and got married.

There seems to be a whole lot more #10 guys than anyone else on this list. All my old single friends are just waiting for a girl to fall into their lap while they are playing X-box. Ain’t gunna happen, as the Relentlessly Pursuing girls are all starting to be grabbed up by another group: The Recent Divorcees Who Were Screwed Over By Domineering Women.